Noreen Patterson <npatt1976@gmail.com> wrote:
Can I honestly ask you how you find Nick physically attractive? I get that beauty is from within and you have low-self esteem issues that you’ve discussed but he’s physically ugly. I just don’t see how anyone could see him from across the room and like him in that way. The lack of sex drive is probably just not wanting to get into bed with that thing rather than the depression.
Are you honestly asking me because you’re genuinely confounded that people are attracted to people who don’t fit within the realms of conventional beauty or because you’re kinda nasty? It’s hard for me to tell. So I figure I’ll try and answer you genuinely but understand that your comment is way deep in to “none of your business” and “oh dear you honestly haven’t been reading my blog very long” territory. Also I’ll wack an “EXCUSE YOURRRRR BEAUTY!” tag on this too.
I like hairy, fat, open, caring, tender people and as it happens, all my consensual partners to date have fit this description. Actually, my first boyfriend wasn’t hairy enough for me, now that I think about it.
If you’ve been reading for any length of time you will know that I am a survivor of rape and I have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I have huge issues with sex as a result. Not that it’s any of your fucking business.
So, “that thing” you so comically refer to is actually my partner, a real life human being. A guy who I’ve been with for six years, someone I cuddle, talk to, joke with, play with, and want to spend a lot of time with. And I will, regardless of your deep concern, and it will be beautiful.