Openly Fat Relationships

hickies-n-hotpants:

fiercefattyflavor:

“My fattness is not this bizarre unspoken-about characteristic that will cause instant strife when mentioned. My husband is not obligated to pretend that I’m not fat. And, if he did, it would annoy the crap out of me. So we have an openly fat relationship…I acknowledge that I’m a fat woman. And not a fat woman with thin woman inside waiting to break free. I am fat and will probably always be fat. And [my partner] doesn’t sit around, hoping that some day I’ll lose weight. He acknowledges my fat, as part of my sexy awesome self.”

word.

YES!!!! I have tried to express this before but never so wonderfully.

I’m in an openly fat relationship… with myself.

And Nick!