If someone opens up on their own blog about their living or financial situation and you don’t “get” why they’re not doing what you would in that situation than the problem isn’t with them. If you can’t open your mind enough to understand that every person in this world reacts different, has a different path and different circumstances to adhere by than you aren’t going to understand why you’re the asshole when you message someone to tell off. It isn’t your right or obligation to take advantage of the anon button to bitch someone out for a decision they felt was right for them. It isn’t your duty to express to someone how unfair it is that you work and they don’t. It isn’t your responsibility to inform the creator of the post that you’re so disappointed in their actions because they’re not doing what you would have done. There is always more than meets the eye. There is always more to the story. Some of us aren’t made to work regular 9 to 5 jobs. Some of us cannot put ourselves into jobs that suck the life out of us. Some of us choose to stay home and struggle until we find what fits us best. Its hard to maintain a lifestyle but everyone struggles in their own unique ways. It isn’t right or fair to make someone else feel wrong for being in the situation they’re in.
Good grief, so much this.
I never get why some people are so invested in preaching to me about what I should do with my fat, disabled, activist, artist life.