so i guess it makes sense that like 50% end in divorce or whatever
god it seems so impossible and weird! i think i’ll just practice polygamy with all my friends
this blows my mind all the time. i talk to everyone about it and they think i’m a werido. like, how can seriously almost everyone how found someone they like enough to MARRY? SO CRAZY?
exactly! that seems impossible to me! there are billions of people on this planet! how do you go about finding “the one”!!!?!?!?!?!
I never thought I’d get married, it’s just not something I ever really guessed would be important to me - however I met Nick and it was important to him so I said I would marry him. I don’t really believe in ~the one~. Life is so fluid and random and filled with a LOT of very lovely people.
Nick and I used to sing this song by Tim Minchin to each other - If I didn’t have you. It says a lot about how we feel about our relationship in the scheme of things and how we feel very much like we benefit from the privilege of being in a hetero-normative relationship.