omg... i'm just gonna say, if you are a "victim blamer" unfollow me now.

healingsakina:

if the only way you can deal with a hurt person sharing their story is to tell them they

• deserved it
• brought it on themselves
• caused it
• aren’t really a victim because it “wasn’t that bad”
• aren’t really a victim because xyz didn’t happen
• allowed it to happen
• gave opportunity
• are a slut
• didn’t stop it soon enough
• aren’t providing you the “concrete proof” you - an outsider - demand

or whatever else you want to say to deny someone has been hurt and that it is WRONG to hurt people that way,

then stay away from me.

this isn’t even about me or my situation, btw. this is about what i am seeing all over my dash from how ppl are responding to other people who have been hurt. this is ridiculous and sickening, and i will not condone it or be silent about that kind of bullying.